My blog is a place for ideas. I am a fervent believer in refining ideas in community, and I had a chance to do that this week with my friends and fellow early childhood educators, Kelly Matthews and Ijumaa Jordan.
I want to share a conversation with you that I had with these thoughtful and reflective leaders in the field of early childhood education. Our discussion began following my blog post from last week called, “The Biggest Problem with Child Care in the United States.” In the discussion that follows, Kelly and Ijumaa dialogue with me about what they see as the biggest problems facing child care in the United States.
The dialogue that follows will make more sense if you’ve read the first post. Please take the time to leave me your thoughts in the comments below. What do you see as the biggest problems facing child care in the United States
I read a sarcastic Craigslist post a few months ago that was circling among my educator cohort titled “Free Child Care.” (I’ve looked for it since and can’t find it to link…you’ll have to use your imaginations.) The post attempted, in witty tongue-in-cheek fashion, to illuminate the problem of child care costs by itemizing the actual cost of providing care for a child. The writer was clever and the post struck a chord with my fellow educators, the sentiment being, Why do clients complain so much about the cost of child care? Don’t they realize how little we make and how much we do??
On the other hand, I have friends in my parenting circles who want more children but choose against it (or choose to delay having other children), because they can’t afford the cost of child care. Many of my fellow family child care providers had other careers before having children of their own, and then the cost of child care was too expensive for them to work. They quit their jobs and opened their own child care programs. They wonder, How can I pay for child care? The costs of placing my children in a child care program take up my entire paycheck. How am I supposed to survive? (more…)
Last week was the Super Bowl, and one of the highlights every year are the commercials. Nationwide Insurance gained notoriety for the commercial they ran which featured a dead child reflecting on everything he missed out on because he died in an accident. The commercial has received lots of negative attention for very important reasons.
Spokespeople from the insurance company continue to stand behind the commercial, stating that the purpose was to raise awareness about the danger of household accidents. My intention was to post this letter one week ago immediately following the Super Bowl, but it took me days to put my thoughts on paper. I have poured more hours into this single blog post than probably any post in the history of my blog. I believe that Nationwide did two critical things wrong (more…)
As a culture, we are obsessed with manners. In our product-oriented society where parents and care providers feel judged by the actions of children, we feel that we are doing a good job when our children are polite.
Why do we care so much? Why is it necessary for our children to use manners in the first place? Why do we care if our children say “please” and “thank you?” (more…)
As parents and educators, we can seem to have it all together.
We are embarrassed that we’ve lost it with our kids over something as insignificant as spilled milk, and so we hide our messy stories from each other. We are fearful to let anyone in on the emotional chaos we feel. We have bought into the lie that vulnerability equals weakness, and weakness equals disaster.
We believe we are raising our children alone.
But we are not alone. (more…)
I was traveling recently, and as I stood in the security line at the Sacramento Airport, I noticed something: I was surrounded by variety.
A couple sporting matching hula pantsuits, avid sports fans showing off jerseys and matching hats, people of all ages with assistive devices including wheelchairs, walkers, and breathing machines. There were travelers with dogs, travelers with international (more…)